I seek and crave a mail exchange with a dear woman. An exchange which showers both of us with blissful delight. Because we no longer feel this with and from our spouses.
I know that such delight happens when both of us “gift to each other” emotional closeness, sexual intimacy, and stimulating conversations. So some rather essential needs inside you and me get re-kindled once again, like feeling desired. And loved to some extent even.
And when we limit all this to emails only, we need not live in the same neighborhood. Plus we won’t devastate our spouses, should they discover what’s going on behind their backs.